In re T.T.

On January 15, 2000, T.T., then twelve years old, was at the Phillipsburg home of L.B., his father’s girlfriend. At that time, T.T. was living with his mother but frequently visited his father on the weekends. He had slept over at L.B.’s house the night before. Shortly before 8:00 a.m., R.B., L.B.’s six-year-old son,1 brought two boxes of douches to his mother. He told her that T.T. had stuck one in his “heiney,” pushed it hard, and continued to do it even though R.B. said that it hurt.

*323According to R.B., T.T. woke Mm up in the early morning while it was still dark outside, told him to turn…