Podcast Episode

Leaving the Life You Trained For

A Slight Change of Plans
Episode 134Sep 24, 202653 minEN
Guest
VGVijay Gupta

Who’s talking

5 speakers
Vijay Gupta31 min · 60%
Maya Shankar18 min · 35%
Jacob Goldstein2 min · 4%
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Transcript

87 turns · 53 min
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Jacob Goldstein0:02

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Maya Shankar0:43

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life, I have

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not known who I am.

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Vijay Gupta2:17

I've only known how to be that performer who escapes.

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Maya Shankar2:21

Professional violinist Vijay Gupta grew up performing on the world's biggest stages in order to fulfill his parents' dreams for him. But over time, he buckled under the pressure to play perfectly, and that eroded his love of the violin. Then Vijay found a new audience for his music in homeless shelters and addiction and mental health clinics. And that audience demanded something very different of him.

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And what changed for me in Skid Row is that the audiences there did not want a performance. They wanted me. They wanted me to be me. And I realized that maybe the thing that I had to do was to say goodbye to dreams that were never mine. You know, what kind of practice would that be? What would that look like?

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Maya Shankar3:15

On today's show, walking away from your parents' dreams and toward your own. I'm Maya Shankar, a scientist who studies human behavior. And this is A Slight Change of Plans, a show about who we are and who we become in the face of a big change. Vijay and I were actually violin classmates as kids. We attended the Juilliard Pre-College Program in New York City. And while we were there, PBS's Reading Rainbow interviewed us about what it was like to perform in an orchestra. Here's 8-year-old Vijay way back when.

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Episode notes

Professional violinist Vijay Gupta grew up performing on the world’s biggest stages in order to fulfill his parents' dreams for him. But the pressure to play perfectly became too much, and over time he lost his love of the violin.

Then Vijay started performing in homeless shelters and mental health clinics, where audiences wanted something very different from him: not perfection, but connection. 

This week, Vijay joins Maya to share how those experiences rekindled his passion for music, and gave him the courage to walk away from his parents’ dreams towards his own.

Check out Vijay’s new book, “Restrung: A Memoir of Music and Transformation,” and learn more about his work with Street Symphony at StreetSymphony.org.

For Fun: Watch young violinists Vijay and Maya on PBS’s Reading Rainbow in 1996, “Zin! Zin! Zin! A Violin.”

For more episodes like this, we recommend our conversation with Shira Gabriel, “Why Experiencing Awe With Others Feels So Magical.”

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